Red flag on a first date

What is an oddly specific red flag on a first date?

Kylie said:

What is an oddly specific red flag on a first date?

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There's been a few girls that told me that they loved me on the first date. And there's been a few that came out and said they wanted to get pregnant and I ran away.

Terminated said:

There's been a few girls that told me that they loved me on the first date. And there's been a few that came out and said they wanted to get pregnant and I ran away.

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That's similar to what I was going to post. You can't possibly know that you love someone on the first date. I know someone that falls in love pretty much that quickly but they're a guy though. This particular person doesn't have a friend zone. You're either in love with him or you don't exist. There is no in between.

Intense people, people need to give space to talk and gain confidence to talk about specific topics.. also talking too much about a former relationship is not a good sign either.

When the date keeps talking about their past relationships and how their exes have treated them.

Kylie said:

When the date keeps talking about their past relationships and how their exes have treated them.

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or how they still have pictures of their ex up at their house when you go over to visit?

Terminated said:

There's been a few girls that told me that they loved me on the first date. And there's been a few that came out and said they wanted to get pregnant and I ran away.

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I'd say, I would consider another if they just want to dump their kid on you.

Terminated said:

There's been a few girls that told me that they loved me on the first date.

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Nevermind then, a person couldn't even wait for that and said that they wanted to marry me within 5 hours without even knowing said person...

It's not that bad to speed things up a bit but when it's obvious that the only thing in your mind and you can't even get other things like pets, interests, etc that might be a cause for concerns...

An ex I did have wanted to go into "high gears" in "adult activities" shall we say? Yea no, I and my body isn't for YOUR entertainment. It's was obviously for my own good to cut that line and fast...

When you "feel" something is wrong. Trust that intuition. People who don't have respect for others, swear overly, talk about an ex, etc.

ZandraJoi said:

When you "feel" something is wrong.

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I've felt that way about the crazy girl I was with for a few months. I had this thing nagging at me in my mind really really bad. It was like my conscience was telling me that I needed to leave her and that she wasn't right in the head. It's like I had a sense that something bad was going to happen.

This is the one that hated my kids and didn't take rejection very well who called DFS on me, tried to fake a pregnancy test, found my family members on Facebook ( I never told her their names so I don't know how she found out seeing as I don't have a Facebook) and she started a bunch of shit.

I knew my parents wouldn't approve of her. So I didn't have her meet any of my family members. I was right. After she ran to my mom and lied to her about being pregnant. My mother called me having a meltdown. But I was able to calm her down and take back control of the situation. I told my mother that I would never ever see this girl again and that yes, she really was out of her damn mind.

If he or she is not listening during the dating per se, he or she is not the right one.