Been stalked
- Thread starter Kylie
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During my cosplay days i was hunted by girls almost everyday, my facebook page account was so popular that i had to delete it since things were going the wrong way, i even remember people stealing my photos and using them but that's over i think..
I had a very toxic ex girlfriend that I had been with for 3 months who didn't take the break up very well. She called DFS, tried to fake a positive pregnancy test, contacted my parents and brother on Facebook, harassed me with tons of text messages and phone calls where I told her on many occasions that it was over and that I was done with her, and she tried multiple times to catfish me on Plenty of Fish. She tried to contact me again in November at which I had found out she had a boyfriend who had a social media page (Facebook). I threatened to make an account and tell him or have my brother message him. After I threatened her with that, she left me alone.
I am terribly sorry that you had face this absurdness over a break up. I sure hope you are able to be better off ever since and on Facebook. ?
Yes. Some girls don't like being rejected. I just wish those women could understand that there are other men out there that they can get with. I'm not the most attractive guy either. But alas, I've had women go crazy over me. It's not the end of the world and no it's not a good idea to be malicious and vindictive towards someone who left you because you don't have your shit together. I don't want to be with someone whose immature and unreliable.
My ex really didn't have her shit together. She hated my daughter. She was a chronic liar because she had a criminal record she completely lied about. She had some serious emotional and mental issues from having a sexual relationship with her father until she was 25 years old, which started a divorce when her mom found out.
She was defensive of her pedophile father which I thought was a form of Stockholm Syndrome. I came to the conclusion that she didn't need to be around my kids or be in a relationship because she wasn't thinking coherently and she was obviously suffering from severe mental illness. She wanted me and my kids to meet her father and that she said he was a wonderful man.
My thoughts on her opinion were HELL and NO. No pedophile is a good person. It sucks that she had that kind of a relationship with her father. I'm not sure if this is also contributed to her sociopathic behavior like lying and breaking the law. But for what it's worth. She doesn't love anyone. She's mentally not able to. She just wants someone for her sexual wants and needs, so she doesn't have to be alone, and to use them for whatever else she wants like she did me.
But what really did it was when she hinted that I should give up my kids and start a family with her. That's when I left her. It was the worst relationship I had ever been in. She was a horrible girlfriend. She's a horrible person who needs counseling and medications.
That is sure is horrific and I am sure I am terribly sorry that you had to face let's just say "someone using you" as I had a short lived "ex" who had a very similar mindset of "using me for stuffs" and I felt so upset and unwanted even though it was so short lived and was still long distance. ?
Again I am terribly sorry @Terminated for all of this and everything in between of what you been struggling with. ? but I glad you eventually was able to put to stop to it.
I think we've all been stalked at some point in our lives. I had this weirdo stalk me at work but luckily it didn't get so serious.
I am glad it didn't escalated to anything serious there, just as kind reminder if you feels like you need to much bosses/HRs should take this seriously if you are feeling harmed or otherwise in danger of such encounters.
Oh, we just laughed about it at work. I mean, we never felt like it got serious but eventually this stalker saw that we were on to him and he toned it down a bit then barely ever see him. He does walk past my work and stares in sometimes.
Indeed for non immediate threatening things, the "slow burning" things like that often is enough to deters less than polite people from pursuing further.
In the last apartment complex that my hubby and I lived in, there was their weirdo that lived there that kept trying to get me to come over to have a cup of coffee with him. No matter how many times I said "no" or tried to get out of it, he kept pushing and pushing me to come over. I knew there was something wrong because 1) he was very insistant and 2) he asked that I come over alone and 3) he asked that I not tell anyone where I was. Well that threw up all kinds of red flags because my parents always told me to tell someone where I'm going during my whole childhood. Well, I contacted a friend who happened to work on the police force at the time although he worked in another town and I asked him what I should do. He asked me if I could get the license plate of his car. Once I got it, I gave it to him and he was able to do some digging. He called me back and said that man had been convicted of rape in the past and on top of that, he wasn't registered as a sex offender either. He sent the info he had to a detective here in the town where I lived but I don't know what became of it because I moved shortly after this took place.
Plenty of times for me personally.
Never happened to me, not even once in my life.
@JennyorAlice I'm sorry you had to go through that but I'm glad you got away from him. He's probably been in and out of prison since then.
