Did you ever initiate a break up?

The guy I was seeing before I met my hubby, I broke up with him. He was spending all his time on the computer playing some computer game and we spent no time together. I was tired of being alone and not getting to spend any time with him so I broke it off with him.

There were several of my friends that assumed he was cheating on me but that was never proven (long story).
 
Kylie said:
If so, why?
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I've broken it off with a few girls I was dating and there's been plenty of girls who either cheated or broke up with me. Then of course there was that sociopath I was with for 3 months off of Plenty of Fish who wanted me to give up my kids and devote my time to her. Not to mention she was a user and a chronic liar. She's the same woman that I've made references to in other threads. I felt she was worse than my ex wife.
 
Terminated said:
Then of course there was that sociopath I was with for 3 months off of Plenty of Fish who wanted me to give up my kids and devote my time to her.
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Just curious why you stayed in a relationship with her for so long.
 
Kylie said:
Just curious why you stayed in a relationship with her for so long.
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It was mostly just a sexual relationship. That's all we did. I was depressed and in denial after my divorce. I didn't really want to be alone. I was miserable. I had tried breaking up with her 3 weeks earlier before the final break up. I had realized that she was making my misery worse. After the break up. I realized she had been the root cause of some of my negative feelings.
 
I broke up with an extremely aggressive girl. She would insult and lie all the time.

That's the brief, don't wanna go deep into details because i just don't wanna play the victim role as my life keeps improving :) i feel like talking about it is just making me feel uncomfy.
 
Yes, I did. I was tired of being the one who gave everything without getting anything in return. No matter how much I loved him but by the end, it just didn’t matter any longer… he had made it easy for me to leave, so I did.
 
A few years ago my partner cheated on me with more than one of my friends, so I ended it. I think there is no recovering from that, so why waste the time to try.
 
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