Do you have/want children?

That's really tough for children to hear. Being loved is different than being wanted as a kid, i had a girlfriend that wasn't acknowledged by her father and.. she had lots of daddy issues.
I very much agree! Kids need to have both. & kids are smart. They KNOW they are not wanted. Even if the parents never say those words, the vibes that are given off speak more in volumes. It's truly sad!
 
I'm single and to be honest, I will rather be single. I'm one of those people that loves to be left alone and do things in his own way and on his own choosing without anyone near me and saying things that I got to do this and that. I'm 28 years old and happy with no kids, I mean I know someone who is 40 years old who is single with no children and he's fine with that as long as he's happy.

Money and costs are not easy to come by and if I can't even look after myself then a doubt that I can look after any kids and babies. Just think your hobbies are gone, working your butt off to feed the family and also we have a heavy population search already.

My brother who is younger than me has four children and married twice. Bad mistakes he made, had a kid at a young age and never helped, got married with two kids then devoiced and never see or speak to the kids and now he's with another person with a child. Even so, that's what I hear as I have not talked to or heard from my own brother in 20 years.
 
I say to each their own.

If you want kids, that's fine as long as you can take care of them.

If you don't want kids, that's fine too. Some people just don't want to have children and they should be able to make that decision for themselves.
 
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