I Don't Know How To Grieve

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A couple of days ago my great grandmother passed away in the middle of the night. I was fine the first day or so after it. But now... I feel so lost. The funeral is Saturday and I will be attending. I feel fine sometimes, and others not so much. I know everyone grieves differently. But... I don't understand why sometimes I'm fine and others not.
 
I'm sorry for your loss.. ? it sounds like you were pretty close?

You're going through the process in your own way.. as memories come to mind about times with your great grandmother, it's natural that you'll feel lost knowing that you can't make new memories with that person, even if sub-consciously.

Talk to members of your family, share the memories, and I hope Saturday goes ok.
 
There are no words for moments like this, just my sincere condolences and i hope you do well.
 
I’m so sorry for your loss :(
When you first know of it, it doesn’t set in until a while after.

I lost my dog to death last year so I know how you feel to a certain degree it’s not a easy thing to deal with.

grief is a very weird thing but I believe that means your slowly adjusting but it will take time.
 
Masterminor said:
A couple of days ago my great grandmother passed away in the middle of the night. I was fine the first day or so after it. But now... I feel so lost. The funeral is Saturday and I will be attending. I feel fine sometimes, and others not so much. I know everyone grieves differently. But... I don't understand why sometimes I'm fine and others not.
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Some people will feel fine when they are busy or have something to distract them from their grief. But when a person finds themself with a bit of down time, that's when they find that they start grieving the loss. Maybe this is something that is going on with you.....? Just a thought.
 
My condolences to you and your family.

It's okay to feel sad and let yourself have that sadness. I like to think of the good memories of family who have passed and I know I'll see them again in the afterlife.
 
My deepest condolences to you and your family. Take it a day at a time. It's important to let yourself feel all of the emotions try not to suppress them and process. Speak with your family and reminisce about the good times and share the happy memories.
 
I am not the person that grieves a lot too. I have tuned my mind to always accept every condition that life throws at me. That's why I always move on very quickly.
 
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