What have you done to damage a relationship?

I've certainly been in relationships where I've been dishonest. I wasn't cheating or anything, but I wasn't transparent about a particular situation. For example, opting not to tell my partner how I know another female... Another female that I've previously dated, but I didn't tell her that. It's wrong, but I just wanted to avoid that awkward conversation entirely.
 
Cam said:
I've certainly been in relationships where I've been dishonest. I wasn't cheating or anything, but I wasn't transparent about a particular situation. For example, opting not to tell my partner how I know another female... Another female that I've previously dated, but I didn't tell her that. It's wrong, but I just wanted to avoid that awkward conversation entirely.
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I think if you have a new relationship then it's okay, but if you've been dating 6 months or longer, then that's not healthy communication.
 
I had a relationship with someone pre-transition and I tried to be what she needed, but couldn't, obviously. It reached a point where she wanted physical intimacy and I just...couldn't offer that. She felt I'd led her on, and I suppose I did...she was the first person I ever came out to, years before actually coming out. We remained friends, but obviously things didn't continue on the relationship front.
 
PGen98 said:
I had a relationship with someone pre-transition and I tried to be what she needed, but couldn't, obviously. It reached a point where she wanted physical intimacy and I just...couldn't offer that. She felt I'd led her on, and I suppose I did...she was the first person I ever came out to, years before actually coming out. We remained friends, but obviously things didn't continue on the relationship front.
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Aw, sorry it didn't work out, but it's good that you're still friends. So it's just a different type of relationship now.
 
Lämmchen said:
Aw, sorry it didn't work out, but it's good that you're still friends. So it's just a different type of relationship now.
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Yeah, I'm glad to still have some kind of relationship with her, she's a wonderful person, I think at that time I was just confusing my own issues and trying to hide myself by having a "normal" relationship with a woman I liked.
 
I intentionally did things to make the guy jealous. I hanged out with other guys and didn't give him much time because I didn't want to appear cheap. Guy tried doing the chasing and gave up after three months.
 
I have lied and cheated on my partners multiple times. For all the ladies that left my life, it was my cheating and insensitivity that cost me the relationship.
 
King Belieal said:
I have lied and cheated on my partners multiple times. For all the ladies that left my life, it was my cheating and insensitivity that cost me the relationship.
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I hope you have changed now. because for some ladies cheating is a deal breaker for them. Ladies now need loyal partners
 
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