Worst date you've ever been on
- Thread starter Kylie
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I met this girl on Plenty of Fish in early December. I know looks aren't everything. But part of it is important to me.
I thought this girl was gorgeous in her pictures. Had a sweet voice. She convinced me to drive almost 2 hours to take her out.
She was nothing like her pictures because she was really skinny in her pictures. The woman I took out to eat on a date looked like she was 300 lbs. I wanted to run as soon as I saw her. I didn't find her attractive at all in person. For one. She had really big hands and feet. She was way taller than me. I thought she was my height. Not what she put in her profile. Anyways that's a big turn off. I prefer to be with women a little bit smaller than me.
I think we got along okay. She was nice. I think she would have made a great friend. But she's not someone I'd ever sleep with or get into a relationship with.
I never kissed her or held her hand. I never sat next to her. She did try to hold my hand but I scooted further down the couch. She told me I could spend the night. But my excuse was that I wanted to be a gentleman and head home. Which is what I wanted to as soon as I got there.
The gentlemen excuse was a complete lie. Most women I've found attractive I find myself in their bed with them. The other part is, the women I was attracted to, didn't want anything to do with me the following day.
Anyways. I went home and never called her to tell if I made it home okay. I had no desire to lead her on. I felt it was good just to disappear. It was one date and maybe if I'd gone on another and really felt it wasn't for me, I would have given an explanation.
I have no problem using the Silent Method. Plenty of women have dropped me without a comment and I don't fault them for it. It's the dating world. It comes with the territory. If they didn't call me the next day. It's cool. It means they're not interested and don't want to move forward.
Anyways, I met my girlfriend at the end of December and have been with her for almost 2 months.
I thought this girl was gorgeous in her pictures. Had a sweet voice. She convinced me to drive almost 2 hours to take her out.
She was nothing like her pictures because she was really skinny in her pictures. The woman I took out to eat on a date looked like she was 300 lbs. I wanted to run as soon as I saw her. I didn't find her attractive at all in person. For one. She had really big hands and feet. She was way taller than me. I thought she was my height. Not what she put in her profile. Anyways that's a big turn off. I prefer to be with women a little bit smaller than me.
I think we got along okay. She was nice. I think she would have made a great friend. But she's not someone I'd ever sleep with or get into a relationship with.
I never kissed her or held her hand. I never sat next to her. She did try to hold my hand but I scooted further down the couch. She told me I could spend the night. But my excuse was that I wanted to be a gentleman and head home. Which is what I wanted to as soon as I got there.
The gentlemen excuse was a complete lie. Most women I've found attractive I find myself in their bed with them. The other part is, the women I was attracted to, didn't want anything to do with me the following day.
Anyways. I went home and never called her to tell if I made it home okay. I had no desire to lead her on. I felt it was good just to disappear. It was one date and maybe if I'd gone on another and really felt it wasn't for me, I would have given an explanation.
I have no problem using the Silent Method. Plenty of women have dropped me without a comment and I don't fault them for it. It's the dating world. It comes with the territory. If they didn't call me the next day. It's cool. It means they're not interested and don't want to move forward.
Anyways, I met my girlfriend at the end of December and have been with her for almost 2 months.
I give you a lot of credit for not just leaving once you saw she lied to you.
I'm happy for you and I hope this relationship works out.
I drove myself to the restaurant to meet a guy for dinner. It started out great and then he kept talking about his ex and looking at his mobile phone. He was barely talking to me. Before our meals arrived at our table, I excused myself to go to the ladies room.
Instead of going to the ladies room, I went out the entrance door of the restaurant. I then got in my car and left. Never heard a word from him again after that.
Instead of going to the ladies room, I went out the entrance door of the restaurant. I then got in my car and left. Never heard a word from him again after that.
So much of this stuff is subjective. Well, I mean beauty is subjective and even what seems to be a bad personality to many might be something misunderstood. I think people can grow on each other when it seems like they there is no attraction going on.
Anyway, the dates or short relationships I have been in - were obviously flawed because the woman simply wasn't attracted to me enough - and I never got massively attracted to her cause I could sense the coldness.
Anyway, the dates or short relationships I have been in - were obviously flawed because the woman simply wasn't attracted to me enough - and I never got massively attracted to her cause I could sense the coldness.
