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Phenom said:
What would you change about yourself then?
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That is an extremely good question. This is a question I've been dealing with myself for 15 months since me and my ex parted ways. After my separation and finalization of divorce, I became a man again. I was slowly getting my feelings back and my self identity.

My family told me that all my ex wife did when we were married was emasculate me and put me through mental and emotional abuse. She truly did turn my my mind and emotions inside out. She took every penny I ever made and blew it. We could have had a house or something saved up for the kids. But we didn't because she's so selfish and manipulative. I was oblivious to it for 11 years. Now as I look back. IT was a terrible relationship.

My kids now see that I went from being an extremely depressed and broken man to someone who is extremely happy as well as free.
 
How are you working to improve yourself mentally and physically?
 
Mentally, well....I divorced the woman that was causing 75% of my anger and depression problem. My kids tell me that I'm extremely happy now. I think they're right in a way. But it does not account for the loneliness I feel at the end of the day. Physically? no more anxiety or panic attacks which lead to me vomiting and passing out. The only problem I have left is to go see a physician about my sleep apnea.
 
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