Have you ever had to carry a whole relationship financially?
For example. When I was married. My ex wife didn't work mostly. She did work on and off for the total of a year out of the whole marriage. But she mostly relied on me to do everything. I was primarily the only one working. I paid on her student loans and credit cards. I paid her car insurance and on our car loan. I paid the rent. When we had kids. I bought everything they needed as well as her needs. I supported her from the time we got together, got married, had kids, and up to the time we got divorced. After that, I cut her off financially.
For example. When I was married. My ex wife didn't work mostly. She did work on and off for the total of a year out of the whole marriage. But she mostly relied on me to do everything. I was primarily the only one working. I paid on her student loans and credit cards. I paid her car insurance and on our car loan. I paid the rent. When we had kids. I bought everything they needed as well as her needs. I supported her from the time we got together, got married, had kids, and up to the time we got divorced. After that, I cut her off financially.